the lack of WS support in games just shows how keen games developers are to make money without pleasing the consumer, the poor bastards that have to play the thing. from what i have heard BF2 is still horribly buggy and full of crappy glitches, until its sorted i wont get it, and until we get some decent support a lot of people will be buying 4x3's.
i dont mean to offend anyone but the people with the WS monitors are generally more wealthy and/or want the best, and can/ do channel more money into their computer than other users. If anything this market can be targeted as these people are more likely to buy games rather than pirate them, or not get them at all. So the companies are not putting into games bits that cater for the more dedicated/ wealthy gamer, its stupid really. Having seen the pathetic FOV that you get in UT2004 i can justify a widescreen monitor but i cant justify the cost, maybe soon but not yet. FEAR is another example of this, although it is demanding on the gpu, and it is still in demo stage, so there is still hope. Steam games are some of the slowest on the uptake of new technology really, yet they have native WS support in HL2, surely EA (perhaps the largest game developer) can do the same?
You are the one that is suffering. WS is a wonderful thing and for folks who do use their comps for other stuff than gaming, it's great and a very welcome change. BF2 doesn't natively support WS, but that is not a reason not to get one. WS is great!
And no, people who own these are not that rich, I work full time and finishing up my full time masters degree now. At the same time I have a family and a kid, a house, a car and all the bills to go along. You just have to be smart about the purchase. I paid $380 for each of my two Dell 2405 monitors, when a regular price is $800. Search for coupons and be patient for a nice sale and you will get this awesome monitor too. http://techbargains.com and http://fatwallet.com are great sites to look for coupons and watch for sales. I use RSS feed from techbargains for up to a minute updates not to miss any sales. Hope you can snatch one or two of these honeys :)
Good Luck.