thanks for the advice...do you have any opinions on wide gamut vs standard gamut displays?...I'm still a bit worried about going with wide gamut as I heard it can oversaturate the look of colors that are mostly designed for sRGB
do you have a recommendation as far as easy to use calibration software?...this will be my first LCD and I don't want to make things overly complicated for myself :)
You cannot calibrate a screen to sRGB unfortunately. The sRGB in the calibration programs refer to the gamma curve/tonal response curve and not to the color space itself. Only via color managed programs, which can utilize a color space conversion/color translation, is it possible to view sRGB on a wide gamut as sRGB. Some screens, like the U2410 have a working sRGB preset that does this for you outside of color managed programs.
Using the saturation control won't reduce the gamut either unfortunately.
How the wide gamut will be for you vs. standard gamut, is a matter of individual taste and "getting used to". Most TV's today feature a wide gamut display and shows sRGB material on it. A standard user might find it actually more flattering with wide gamut vs. sRGB, while another might find it worse.
The difference between sRGB and wide gamut displays that are close to aRGB isn't that big. You will mostly see it in pictures, while in games, it might enhance the experience instead, since its not so important which color space the game is made in. Green looks more green on wide gamut and less lime etc.
Since most displays sold now are wide gamut, almost all gamers who recently bought a display are actually playing in wide gamut.
There are some internet programs that can do a color translation where you will see sRGB material as sRGB. Mozilla firefox is one of those. The build in picture viewer in Vista and Windows 7 is also capable of this.
The U2410 have a working sRGB preset that do color translation instead of just mudding the colors as seen on some other sRGB presets. Frag mentioned that the preset can cause input lag, which is probable, since there are some extra color processing going on there.
I would suggest that you go to a store where they have TV's or other wide gamut displays and see if this matters to you or not. Then you might get a better idea of how it will look and what your choices are afterwards. :)